Random Rambling | English-Vinglish



Hello all, first of all I am very sorry for the condemnable late post in this segment. I don’t know how to apologize for this, but I do with utmost sincerity.

Today, it will be a confession post. Possibly all of you have watched the movie called ‘English Vinglish’ that had released couple of months ago. No, no, this is not going to be a movie review. As I said before, I will confess something, and I want to confess that I can’t speak in English fluently. I know it’s disappointing to hear such things from an English Literature student, but I can’t avoid the reality.

 I have always been a student of Bengali medium institutions. So, I was never given the opportunity to talk or converse in English. I believe this is the only reason why I couldn’t build up the fluency of speaking English. I don’t say and believe that a Bengali-medium student cannot speak in English fluently. They surely can, in fact there are a lot of people, but the fact is, they need to do a lot of effort and practice, and what I lacked was that companion to whom I can talk and converse.

English has always been my favourite subject.  As I always scored well in that subject, it eventually became my favourite one. Later, I found it my most preferred medium of communication when it came to writing. I have always been more effortless in jotting down my thoughts in English than Bengali. I have written Bengali poems too but still English is the only language that I can mould into anything I want. I have never felt hassled while writing in English, but the only thing that have stressed and perturbed me is my inability to speak in English. There were times when I felt very bad about myself, I suffered from inferiority complex. Every time I saw a person fluently speaking in English, I tried to imitate the gestures, the exact articulations but ended up with wrong pronunciations or grammatical errors, though I never had any issues with grammar while writing.

But there is also a good part to the story. Slowly, steadily, I am progressing. I am glad to announce that my verbal skill is improving very much. I am shopping online these days, and every time the customer relation personnel call me I have to talk to them in English. I have noticed that, when I talk to them I never face any problem regarding the verbal communication. This has boosted my confidence. Now I don’t have that much issue with it anymore. I can proudly say that I have improved myself. I cannot say that I am as fluent as everyone else, but I can assure you that I have taken the first step to it. My sister and I converse a lot in English; I read English newspapers out loud to realize my errors in articulating words properly. In one expression, I am trying a lot. I believe, in a month or two I will be able to converse fluently. I still don’t know what you feel for me right now, after reading this; I don’t know what you feel about this problem, but in India, many people like me have to face this problem. Some live with it, some try to improve and accomplish. There is nothing bad in it, but when you are with some people in a room and find that everyone excluding you is speaking English and chatting with each other in English and you are trying to prove your presence by uttering some roughly sewed broken words, you feel ashamed, you feel shattered, and your self-confidence is smashed in a snap.

Okay, okay, a lot of heavy words! Now I am going to share with you some of the tips that I followed to improve my verbal skill-
  • Don’t run, face it: Facing the problem is the only solution to get over it. Don’t run away from it. If you know that you have some issues with your verbal power, deal with it, face a mirror and talk to yourself instead of giving up. This is the only way to actually boost up and reconstruct your confidence.
  • Read Out Loud: Reading is the best way to learn and reading is also the best way to speak. Grab a book, or a newspaper or a leaflet or anything that is written in English and read it loudly. Take enough time for pronouncing each word and articulate it clearly. Take assistance of a dictionary if needed, to pronounce the words correctly. The more your brain listens to you, the clearer the language would be to you.
  • Pair up: No, I am not advising you to go for a prom night. Just ask one of your friends or family members to pair up with you, where they ask you 10 questions and you have to give the answers fast, both in English. This helps a lot, friends. I started polishing my verbal power with this and it helped me a lot.
  • Give Speeches: If you’re more a good writer than a good speaker like me, if your pen is mightier than your tongue like me, write a few lines or a speech and try presenting it in front of your friends. Build an audience who will judge your skills, point out flaws and correct your errors. Start with a few lines then expand your limits.

These are the few tips that can improve your oral abilities. They have been helping me a lot. I am sure you will be able to notice the changes in you. What is most important is to believe in you and to build confidence. That is all. You don’t need to join spoken English courses or so. It’s you and only you who can make this possible. Somebody has truly said, “Man is the maker of his own fate”. I hope you haven’t got bored reading this long post. I hope this post proves to be helpful for those who have the similar problem like mine.

At the end, I would like to let you know that I am taking a break from now on. I will be posting after a break. A lot of activities have made me work slowly and I am craving for some fresh air now. I hope I won’t take too long to get back to you. Till then be confident, be you. 

Comments

  1. loved this post
    slowly and steady wins the race
    good job girl and good luck :)

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  2. Hey Dear,

    Your words kind of brought back some shattered memories in my past life. I can understand when you said: "I still don’t know what you feel for me right now, after reading this; I don’t know what you feel about this problem, but in India, many people like me have to face this problem." That's so true and I understand that so well being an Indian... But hats off to you sweety that, "inspite of all this, you write excellently. There’s no doubt!!" And I salute you for your courage to accept your weakness publicly. I am proud of you to know that you are working towards improving on that. I wish you all the very best and I am sure....you will be your BEST one day. Seriously LOVE THIS POST Dear!! Lots to accept and learn! I have done that practically in my past life. Accepted my weakness in English writing and even speaking a lot bit, and faced it with a brave heart. Improved and just kept improving.......still improving and I am sure will be My Best someday……Love You…Epsita

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    1. Thank you so much. It feels great to hear that my post have inspired a person. Accepting weakness is itself a strength that should be indulged. There is nothing wrong in not knowing something than pretending. Wish you all the best in life Epsita :)

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  3. I also had problem speaking in English fluently as I was a marathi medium student. So I would like to add one point about finding a companion to whom we can talk & converse. Do not try to find anyone with whom we can talk & he\she will do the same with us. If you are in college, start speaking with each and everyone you meet without caring about the fact that what they will think of me. After some time, they will automatically start doing the same with you. Others will talk in any language among temselves, but when they will talk to you, they will speak in english only. This is what I have been doing in college to improve my English speaking. I'm also not fluent but I'll be over perod of time. I'll try the things you've mentioned in READ OUT LOUD. I haven't tried that yet.

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    1. Thank you for sharing your views. I agree with you totally :)

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  4. Great post my love...This is motivational post n I appreciate ur hard work ..u r multi talented n hats off to u....ur writing skills r really good ...u r full of inspiration. ..god bless n love u..
    I should learn from u...

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    2. Oh my God! Glad you liked my post dear. Thanks for your lovely words :)

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  5. lovely :)

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  6. I really doubt the fact that you aren't fluent in English! Your posts are all flawless and wonderful! For me, my friends help me improve my vocabulary, but the problem is, I start to stammer, when you know too many words you wouldn't know which one to use! which requires a quick thinking! It's something that I lack!
    I liked the way you were genuine! And a great post, very helpful too :D

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    1. The same thing happens to me. The thing you should do is just forget everything and just talk. Forget about mistakes. But that doesn't work out sometimes and it happens to me also. I am working on it. Thanks for your kind words Harshini :) Loved your name :)

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  7. Seeing your writing skills...I really wonder how you can be not fluent in english. I love ur genuine nature...we love ur blog so much and trust me I said it earlier and im saying this again you will definitely touch the sky very soon! And I loved the post so much!

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    1. Thanks a ton for the love Rachna! Even I winder sometimes how am I not fluent in talking in English! It's not that I don't know the language or else. Sometimes I feel I lack courage. Some sort of inferiority complex and if this is it I must work on it. I am blessed to have reader and well-wishers like you. Thanks for being a part of my blogs :)

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  8. What is the big deal about not being able to speak proper English? It is our second language, and assuming you can manage Hindi, you are already familiar with three. Most people in the world can only manage one, and that too not very efficiently.

    What I find commendable is that you have not given up. I am seriously impressed. I respect your diligence.

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    1. There is no big deal about not being able to speak 'proper' English, but there is a big deal about not being able to speak in English. I have seen a zillion of people who speak in English but their grammar sucks. My problem is that I care a lot about sentence formation and word selection while talking which eventually leads me to nothing. English may be our second language but there are some places, better known to you, where you encounter such situations in which you are questioned in English and you are expected to answer them in English too.

      Thanks a lot for your appreciation dadabhai. I hope I'll get rid of this very very soon :)

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  9. Loved the confession, and the way you tried to enhance your strengths ... this post is really inspiring and motivation ... but y the brek in blogging? hope u will be back soon :-)

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    1. Thank you so much Amrit for the lovely words :)
      The break was much needed. I feel so fresh now :)

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    http://debaratisblog.blogspot.in/2013/12/sharing-joy-to-have-first-liebster.html

    and don't forget to reply me.

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  11. I read a lot of ur work during that write tribe! Liked it to the core! U are a super writer with amazing word power! Good to know about your life...the burglary part was sad though! Your tips are quite informative! thanks for sharing!
    Have a nice day! :)

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    1. Thank you so much for all your appreciations. Being remembered by an awesome blogger like you is the most desired gift for a newbie blogger like me. Glad you liked my post. Keep reading and keep showering your love on me :)

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